Philly Part 2

WE ARE HOME! 

Well, we've been home since Saturday technically...


Let me pick up from where I left off last.

On Thursday we had more therapy. It was actually very beneficial because we were able to move the time so Ana wasn't so exhausted from no naps. She was a bit tired still, but actually worked! We focused on rolling and scooting. Anabelle really liked to roll. We tried to get her into a prone position when she would roll on to her belly, she cried. Prone means she is up putting weight onto her forearms, like in an army crawl position. I think it might be to much of a stretch on the muscles in her shoulder/arm pit area since those muscles are really tight. There was also a wedge we used to help her learn to scoot. They has a smaller wedge that basically looked like a little slide, Ana sized. It has an inch lip on each side, and it was about 18 inches from top to bottom of the slide. We put Ana at the top, and at first helped her scoot down to show her how to do it. She was fine if we were doing it for her. But she got the idea, and did it solo! However... it scared her, and she cried. She's not use to moving on her own, so it was scary not to have our hands on her while she moved,  she didn't feel secure. But she is getting the idea, and I think she will progress quickly!

Friday: We had PT first. It was another good day! More of the same, but she is getting the idea, and I think it will only take a few months until she is all over the place and we will have to really baby proof again!

Saturday was our flight home. It was an early flight, especially since we had to return a car and was worried about it being spring break and the cut backs to TSA. We had a flight from Philly to Chicago, then Chicago home. With a 3 hour layover in Chicago. Unfortunately plans changed. On the flight to Chicago Anabelle's feeding tube broke. Now, she has a straight J tube. J is for Jejunum. Jejunum is the first part of your small intestine. The more popular tube is a G tube, and that goes directly into your stomach. Ana's tube bypass the stomach and goes directly to the jejunum. Her tube has to be replaced in the hospital under anesthesia. We aren't even give a replacement just in case we run into this issue. Also, because of the size she has, the part that comes out of her stomach hangs out about 6 inches or so. The tube broke in that part. I couldn't clamp it, so it just kept leaking. I had no choice but to stop her food. I dried it all up, and used some tape to try to stop it. So we finally get to Chicago. I learn that our plane is delayed by two hours. So 3 hour layover is now a 5 hour layover. This means Ana won't be eating this whole time, and it means getting her to the ER will take even longer. I tried calling doctors to get them to help expedite our process. Nope. Ana couldn't sleep well. She doesn't feel hunger, but her sugars and whatnot drop. You know that feeling when you haven't eaten for awhile, and you feel kind of sick? Yep, that's it. Then the plane was delayed another hour. At this point had been up traveling for 11 hours. Then our plane got in, and we had about a 4 1/2 hr plane ride home. Make that 11 hours 15 1/2. We land, go to get our bags, and learn because of the delays, they misplaced one bag. So I file a baggage claim. Then finally off the hospital!

We have to go to the ER, see if the department who replaces tubes will do it that night, and of course they won't. They have to admit Ana since by this point it has been over 24 hours since she's had anything, and she's dehydrated and her numbers have dropped. I usually have a really good experience with the nurses and doctors.. However this nurse rubbed me the wrong way. Maybe it was the lack of sleep and food on my end. Long story short, we finally get admitted, get her in bed, get her some sugar and electrolytes, sulfate, etc.. Which I learned the next morning they did incorrectly... And she starts to do better, but still exhausted. Get her a new tube, finally, and get out of dodge.

We got home Sunday evening. I am not sure how mom's travel solo for this trip repeatedly. I don't think I can do it again. I am still trying to recoup from this trip. Luckily Ana is able to nap:) However today (Tuesday) she is acting like her tube is in the wrong place. We can wait till morning to check, but hopefully it's fine.

Oh, but on top of this, Anabelle has been battling pink eye and a cold. She is one little trooper. Makes me feel like a big wimp sometimes :)


Hopefully that is the end to our excitement for awhile.

With love,
The Polks

Quick recap

So I know it's been far too long since I have updated. It's mostly due to lack of time. So I am forcing myself to sit here and do it!

The last update was just before we went on our second trip to Philadelphia. 

So now that was almost a month ago now. Realizing that I feel pretty bad for not updating. 

It went really good! It was just me and Anabelle for this trip. We also used Hosts for Hospitals (H4H) for the first time too. All in all, it was a good trip. The family we stayed with was sweet beyond words. They opened their entire house to us. The casts were removed. And legs and ankles look amazing. 

The top picture is before, then after is on bottom! Oh, and see how chunky her lil thighs are now too! 

So casts came off, then we went to make sure her braces still fit. We tried out the AFO's and KAFO's. The AFO's just needed to be made a little wider for her new chunk. The KAFO's needed a lot of reworking. She grew about an inch on one leg, and almost an inch on the other leg. And they also needed to be made a bit wider. They had to mail them to us since their metal worker already left and it was the weekend. Below is a picture of what a KAFO looks like. Ana's looks pretty similar, and even has a butterfly pattern!

So our appointment was December 7th. It's the 27th now. And still no KAFO's. Thanks to lovely UPS. They said we refused the package. Right... So they are on their way back to Philly, then back to us. As long as we get them eventually...

We are going to go back in March for a week. A week of intensive therapy. That means daily therapy geared to help her focus on ... wait for it ... WALKING! So our goal until then is to get her to sit unassisted. Over the past few weeks she is getting a lot better at holding her head by herself. I think it is do-able! 

The flight back Anabelle must have caught another bug. She has been sick on and off since then. We started her on Albuterol for the congestion, coughing, and ickyness. We also did another sleep study. We will get the results on the 7th. Really hoping for good results. We also saw her pulmonologist. He recommended doing a bronchoscopy when she is fully over all this ickyness. 


She is getting use to her AFO's. They are keeping her ankles straight. 

Another awesome note. Her GI said that she is getting too big! Well, to quickly at least. So we get to cut down from continuous 24 hours feedings to 18 hours a day. Last weigh in she weighed 15 pounds 10 oz!! CHUNKY! That's almost 11 pounds since she was born. Amazing. 


And she is talking up a storm. She says 'Da da da da da', and 'Ya ya ya ya'. She's become a lot more social too. As long as she has sleep in her. And she is sleeping better most nights, as long as she is feeling good. 

It seems like the appointments are slowly dwindling. I remember when we had 20+ appointments a month, and AMC families told me that it gets easier after a year, and appointments will slow down. I didn't believe it when they said it, but it's slowly starting to! 


Oh, and we had a wonderful Christmas! Ana didn't cry when she meet Santa! 

I can't believe we are creeping up on a year already. Just a few more months. I know time flies with kids, but it seems like this last year has gone by much quicker than normal. Luckily even though it is going fast, it is getting better and better. 

Just so thankful for my beautiful family. And everyone for the support. We couldn't have made it this far without it. 

Thank you!!

With love, 
The Polks

Pink!

I had a nice long (almost done) update all typed up, couldn't finish it because of life, so I saved instead... And when I get time to come back.. it's vanished. 

I apologize if I don't include everything now.. because time goes on and I just forget things :/ 

Man o man. Have we been a busy family lately. 

The most important update, one I am sure everyone is dying to know about. 

PHILADELPHIA! 

It was perfect! I'll start from the beginning. 

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We were flying out of SFO (San Francisco), which is about a 2 or so hours drive for us. We decided to drive to Richmond area and take the BART the rest of the way to the airport. All went well! We got there, check in was great. We had a layover in Denver. Oh and we sat next to a lady on the way to Denver that was SUPER sweet. And Ana smiled tons at her! Which is a huge improvement because she went (and sometimes is going) through a phase where she scream/cries at strangers. A little traumatized from doctors and nurses I think. We get to Philly, that went fine (minus the cab driver not knowing the city...) Go to our hotel. All is great. Ana did great sleeping somewhere foreign. 

We decided the next day to go to the hospital early to grab something to eat in the cafeteria before since we were in a hotel. We got to Shriner's about 2 hours before. We filled out all the registration papers and were told to go to clinic. I didn't think that the appointment would be as long as it was, so I think we can just grab something to eat after. Boy was I wrong. 

We got called back to a room early. We answered the same ol' medical history stuff. Waited. Saw Dr. Z (the hand expert). He was very nice! He knows and is willing to coordinate with the hand expert at our local Shriner's, whom we have no qualms with. She is actually helping us with our Miracle Flights paper work. He said that a muscle transfer will probably be unlikely for Ana. For two main reasons. 1) Taking good strong muscles from her legs to move them would only make her legs weaker, which doesn't makes sense, and 2) He needs a good nerve(s) to hook the muscle up to, which doesn't seem like it would happen or be easy with her arms. He did say to keep up the range of motion, and that he thinks some elbow splints would help with bending her elbows more. The more they bend, the bigger the possibility for independence. She might not be able to bring her hands to her face, but if she can get her forearm to a tables edge and use her weight to bend to her hand that's up on the table, then she could eat, brush teeth etc. I really hope that is an ok explanation. 

Then we meet with the PA (physician's assistant). Talked some more. 

Then waited some more. 

Then we meet with Dr. vB (lowers expert). He took measurements. How much she can bend (flex) and straighten (extend) everything; ankles, knees, hips, wrists, elbows, shoulders, head... We talked about different options. Explained what we have done so far to him. Never once did he say 'Let's try to get her knees to bend to at least a sitting position.' We decided serial casting would probably be a flop since she's kind of plateaued. So he thinks that AFO's and KAFO's will be better for her. So he put her in plaster casts until the braces are ready for pick up (1 months time). The AFO's will be for her to wear during the day, the KAFO's will be night time. The KAFO's will have a lock on them. This will allow us to flex her knees at night and lock them, and gradually over time keep flexing. But this also gives us the freedom to remove the braces and give her baths, continue therapy, and paint her toenails! For further down the road.. he likes to do hip surgeries around 1-1 1/2 years old. We didn't talk in too much detail only because we were already approaching the 4+ hour mark. But in short, he recommends doing a surgery that just nicks the tendon on her hip that is keeping her from laying flat. I have no idea what tendon, or if that has a name. He also talked about doing a hip osteotomy. This one is big and scary. And we will need some time to talk about it with him more. 

Oh and he took x-rays! I'm not sure why x-rays weren't taken locally before treatment started. I think we were just so excited to finally be getting ortho treatment that we were in a daze. But after a while we asked and were told they are not needed. Ok, not going to focus on the negative. He took films of Ana's ankles in a few different positions, her knees fully bent (her fully bent), fully extended, and of her hips. We learned that she has oblique talus. To my understanding, her ankle bones are in socket, but not perfectly. And he found it interesting. He thought she had vertical talus. So interesting to me that this was found, and treatment might differ, because of a simple x-ray. Sorry, I got sidetracked again. I mustn't dwell on the faults of previous doctors. And they point a little downwards. Her right foot arches too. Her knees look fine (need to ask about the patella, totally forgot), and her hips still look great and in socket. YAY!

I just have to say. The ENTIRE staff is amazing! I have tons of little stories. One family has a bunch of kids, two AMCer's, were there, and they also have a brand new baby. BRAND new. So while the kids were getting films (I believe..) the check in gal held the baby for the family! The PA helped us get subway info for our way back to the hotel (but we ended up cabbing it due to time). When people entered the room they didn't just sit and stare, they introduced themselves! Explained their role and why they were there! The entire staff offers their help. If I have any questions they make sure I know how to get a hold of them. And when I call/email, they RESPOND! In a timely fashion to top it off! Oh, another big plus... the doctor does the casting himself! And it's a single bed cast room vs. a 6 bed open curtain cast room where you hear the kid next to you screaming! Oh, and they offer you their left over pizza from their pizza party! Which was a life saver since it was after 5 and we hadn't eaten. 

It was so nice meeting other AMC families as well. Seeing their kiddos! We got to chat with a few different moms while waiting to get fitted for braces. 

Ana on the other had was not a happy camper. She was wanting sleep and was done with people touching her. Little did we know she was also coming down with a cold. 

I've heard Dr. vB's casts are painful, so I packed and used Ana's Tylenol with Codeine. 

So our flight home. It was ok.. I felt bad for Ana because she hated her legs being touched, and felt bad for those around us because she was screaming. During our layover in Denver a wonderfully nice lady came up to us. She asked if Ana just had surgery. Oh man, here we go. Explained no, AMC, and what were doing. Luckily Ana was sleeping. Surprise! The lady has a friend with AMC! YAY!! She asked where we were going/coming. Explained that as well. She was floored! Her friend has raved to her about Shriner's Philly, and how great their doctors are. So any adult AMC'er who had a friend in Denver on 11/6, I'd love to get in touch with her again! Very nice lady!!

We get home and Ana is feeling too great. We also had a nurse the day after we get back who was shadowing our regular nurse. But this nurse wanted DETAILS. We don't have everything in writing as most things are a "you try it out and figure out what works at home" kind of thing. Plus we didn't know she was coming, plus we had a doctor appointment. At the doctor appointment Ana spits some brown up. Weird. She has nothing in her stomach, especially nothing brown. The doc says to start an oral med again, but lowers the dose. It has to be oral because it coats the stomach lining, and if it goes through her tube then it won't get to her stomach. So at home I try to give her some. The new dose is .25 ML. 5 ML's equals roughly a teaspoon. 1 ML is about .2 teaspoons. So 0.25 ML is nothing! To us. To Ana it's tons. She chokes, gags, doesn't like it, doesn't know what to do with it. Then she throws up. Big time. And all brown. Off to the ER. I'm not waiting this out. They suspected a bowel obstruction. So they admitted her, to the ICU. Which means constant Pulse ox and monitoring (more wire when holding her, blah). Come to find out I was just giving her too much Tylenol with codeine and she was sick. I was trying to treat the symptoms of the Tylenol with more Tylenol. Mom of the year award goes to me... 

Finally four days later Ana was finally smiling again! And back to herself, thank goodness! 

OH. And we got the MRI results, but haven't had the follow up. So I'll update when we do that in the beginning of December. But nothing huge was found (at least from what I can read...)

We have a follow up sleep study next month too. 

Fun time!! Pictures! 

 Halloween- Tinkerbells!

 

Pooped after getting casts! 

Happy to be home!!

My three babes <3>

Amelia hugging her booked and 'sleeping' in Ana's bouncer :D

Until next time - 

With love, 

The Polks